Posts Tagged ‘Betty L Smith’

Release Trapped Toxic Emotions

Tuesday, September 13th, 2011

Author Betty L. Smith Speaks Out about Releasing Trapped Emotions

In the spring of 2002 my husband, Gilbert Smith, went from being a middle-aged man to an old man in a few short weeks. In June of that year, we became members of EMC2AIM which is a quantum physics modality that raises your Life Force to 100.  When life force flows through every cell of the body, we stay healthier longer. Ultimately, it slows the aging process.  Gil’s aging immediately returned to normal speed. However the following year, he was diagnosed with Parkinson’s.

At the time he was diagnosed with Parkinson’s, he said, “I want to heal myself and speak out about how I did it.”  The allopathic Western medical system has no answers for Parkinson’s.  There is no medical test that can be given that verifies you have Parkinson’s. The doctor makes the diagnosis by watching how you move and walk.

Over the years, we explored all kinds of alternative healing modalities. They slowed his Parkinson’s symptoms.  However, in August 2009 Gil went into the Golden Living Convalescent Home in stage four Parkinson’s.

In the spring 2011, we finally hit pay dirt in finding a process that activates our natural ability to heal.  Dr. Bruce Lipton, a cell biologist by training from the University of Wisconsin’s School of Medicine and later performed pioneering research at Stanford University, was a featured expert in the movie, The Living Matrix: A Film On The New Science of Healing. Lipton observed that studies show one third of all healing occurs through the placebo effect, yet M.D.s-in-training spend just 15 minutes studying the placebo effect.

In Spring 2011, I heard an interview with alternative practitioner, Dr. Bradley Nelson, speaking on The Emotion Code.  The Emotion Code is a system uncovered by Nelson that quickly releases negative trapped emotions.  Alternative healers have known for decades that trapped negative feelings and emotions play havoc with our health and well-being especially as we age.   For example, in 1991 Feelings Buried Alive Never Die by Karol K. Truman was published. However no one to date has come up with a quick, easy way to release these trapped negative emotions until Dr. Bradley Nelson developed The Emotion Code.

Dr. Bradley Nelson had materials available to teach people how to use the process. I immediately ordered the information on The Emotion Code, started learning, testing it on myself at first.

On one particular visit to see Gil, I found he couldn’t move in bed. His left groin hurt so badly, he could not move — much less get out of bed.  I did The Emotion Code technique on him releasing negative trapped emotions in his groin. The pain immediately left. He got out of bed and with his walker walked half way down the hallway.  The next day I went back and released the negative trapped emotions in his right groin. After that, he went back to walking all four hallways again.

Over the past five months, I have been working with him almost daily, releasing negative trapped emotions in his body either in person or by proxy. He is now speaking better; his drooling has all but stopped; his shaking is greatly minimized; and he is beginning to stand taller and straighter.

Both he and I are feeling that if he had done The Emotion Code when he was initially diagnosed with Parkinson’s, he would not be where he has been these last two years.

As I released all these trapped negative emotions, I also found out when he first felt them and discovered the following pattern.  Many of the negative trapped emotions he formed from birth up to twenty years of age became inactive throughout adulthood.  Then around age 74, about the time he was diagnosed with Parkinson’s, they became active again.

Statistics are showing that often Family Caregivers die before the loved ones they are caring for.
In doing The Emotion Code on myself, I found the above pattern applied to me also.  Many negative trapped emotions I had formed as a child became active again when I was plunged into family caregiving (with my mother who has been at death’s door for three years and Gil in the last two years being in the last stages of Parkinson’s.)

I encourage all Family Caregivers to learn and practice The Emotion Code, both to benefit yourself as caregiver and for your loved ones.  To learn more, feel free to send me an email at bsetnow(at)sonic(dot)net. You can read other articles about alternative health, wellness, and personal well-being at my web site, http://www.authorBettyLSmith.com.

Effective Caregiving Comes from Personal Growth

Thursday, February 3rd, 2011

YOUR Personal Growth Journey Holds the Key to Effective Caregiving

You can be a  more effective family caregiver — without losing your health and well being. All it takes is stepping away from old habits, toxic beliefs, and the cultural conditioning that keeps you locked into ill-fitting roles. These are the forces at play that cut you off from  your genuine feelings.

I have been on a lifetime journey of personal growth, stripping away these unhealthy habits and going ever deeper into expressing my genuine feelings. These experiences have helped me be more effective in my role as family caregiver.

It has been an ongoing (and lifelong) learning experience to be able to speak and write from the truth of my feelings.  I have learned the more I speak from my genuine feelings, the more I connect with my heart energy and my inner self.

I also discovered the more I connected with my inner self, the healthier I became. My allopathic physician has been impressed over the years, as the few times my blood pressure went up, I was able to bring it back to normal in a very short period of time without any medication.

The Trouble that Stems from Disconnecting from Your Genuine Feelings

At the root of this personal growth journey is a willingness to feel your genuine feelings and write and speak from the truth of your own experience. By noticing, accepting, and speaking from your genuine feelings, you will start to “peel the onion” of these toxic beliefs and habits that no longer serve you. (I’ve been doing this for years, and I am still peeling back layers of this onion.)

Due to cultural conditioning from family, school, and church, we separated ourselves from what we truly felt in order to survive. In that process, we disconnected from our inner self and formed negative perceptions about our self.   These negative perceptions became rock solid beliefs in our subconscious, beliefs so tenacious that they ultimately open us to disease in the body — especially aging degenerative diseases.

Notice Your Genuine Feelings!

The process of numbing out and disconnecting from authentic feelings is so automatic and ingrained that we are unaware that we are doing it. The first step to healing this inner rift is to simply become aware of the genuine feelings that run like a current beneath what we usually show as “socially acceptable” feelings and responses.

As I connected with my inner knowingness in what is right for me to do, I literally became my own authority. I came to trust and depend on that inner voice.  I discovered that the more I expressed my genuine feelings, the more I connected with what Milton Erickson, an American psychiatrist and hypnosis specialist, calls our inner self.  Erickson said, “Patients are patients because they are out of rapport with their own unconsciousness. Patients are people who have too much programming, so much outside programming that they have lost touch with their inner self.”

In my next article I will share the day-to-day actions that my inner knowingness is guiding me to take with my husband, to support him in his desire to heal himself. After seeing the “The Living Matrix Movie” several times, he made the statement to me,  “It is saying what you have been saying only in different words.” He then made the decision to heal himself.  Only time will tell if he started early enough, as he is now in the later stages of Parkinson’s.

Parkinson’s Caregiver Discusses Being Your Own Authority

Thursday, April 8th, 2010

Author and Parkinson’s caregiver, Betty L Smith, met Dr. Kashonia Carnegie through The Soft Sell Marketers Association, an organization created by Judith Sherven, PhD and Jim Sniechowski, PhD. Kashonia, a moral and environmental philosopher who works from her home in the mountains in rural Far North Queensland in Australia, has created a community of like-minded colleagues at Raising Love Consciousness. Every month or so, she enters into conversation with her community members. The following link is an excerpt of Betty’s conversation with Kashonia in December 2009.

Betty shares her story of coming to learn how to listen to her own inner knowingness and to be her own authority, both of which are crucial skills for family caregivers who want to maintain their health and well-being.

Click the text below. It’s a link to bring up the recording so you can listen right on your computer.

Family Caregiver Betty L Smith Joins Kashonia Carnegie 12-15-2009

Hello family caregivers!

Saturday, November 7th, 2009

Welcome to family caregivers. If you are on a lifelong healing journey for yourself or your loved one, then this site will offer some alternatives for your lifelong learning around taking care of yourself as a caregiver and exploring the last frontier in health and well-being.  My name is Betty L Smith, author of The Power to Change. I am a family caregiver to my husband with Parkinson’s and my elderly mother, along with being a lifelong learner. I look forward to sharing lessons from my healing journey with you.